“Our jobs as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of what we want, make it absolutely clear in our minds what we want, and from that we start to invoke one of the greatest laws in the Universe, and that’s the law of attraction. You become what you think about most, but you also attract what you think about most.”
—John Assaraf
April 2010
31 posts
“Never regret anything you have done with a sincere affection; nothing is lost that is born of the heart.”
—Basil Rathbone
“I almost can’t believe I’m going to make myself vulnerable to him again. But what is love but the most extreme and exquisite form of risk perception? I know that relationships don’t last. And yet, with him, the risk of not being with him is much worse than any other hurt I can imagine.”
—Megan McCafferty, Charmed Thirds
“It’s okay to work hard. There is nothing wrong with making your own way. Most short cuts are letdowns.”
—Isobella Jade
“Sometimes you meet somebody and you know that whatever you did before, it must have been right. Nothing could’ve been too bad or gone too far wrong because it led you to this person.”
—Ethan Hawke
“Passion is passion. It’s the excitement between the tedious spaces, and it doesn’t matter where it’s directed. It can be coins or sports or politics or horses or music or faith. The saddest people I’ve ever met in life are the ones who don’t care deeply about anything at all.”
—Nicholas Sparks, Dear John
“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.”
—Lady Gaga
“The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams.”
—Oprah Winfrey
“You don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone. People change. The world changes. And sooner or later you lose people you care about. If you don’t mind some advice from someone who doesn’t know much about families, I can tell you this: Don’t take yours for granted. It might feel like all of them will always be there. But they won’t.”
—Harry Dresden
“Those who came before him are barely fragments of my life. They’re more like part of the person I used to be rather than the person I am.”
—JoAnne Golden
“I knew this feeling, the 2 A.M. loneliness that I’d practically invented. It was always worse right after a breakup. In those first few hours officially single again the world seems like it expands, suddenly bigger and more vast now that you have to get through it alone.”
—Sarah Dessen, This Lullaby
“Sometimes dreams alter the course of an entire life.”
—Judith Duerk
“If I ever have kids, and they are upset, I won’t tell them that there are people starving in China or anything like that because it wouldn’t change the fact that they are upset. And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn’t change the fact that you have what you have.”
—Stephen Chobsky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower
“Love is always a good thing, no matter how much it hurts. Even after it’s over, even through the pain, anyone who has ever really loved will tell you that they never regretted a second of it, no matter how much it hurt in the end. And if you tell me differently, I will tell you that you were not truly in love.”
—April Nizlek
“Devote today to something so daring even you can’t believe you’re doing it.”
—Oprah Winfrey
“I’ve decided you’re not worth it. I won’t shed another tear over you. Why on earth would I cry over someone who could care less about me? That only makes me seem pathetic. And I’m not. I never was. I was only in love with someone who didn’t have the capability of loving me back.”
—Joanne Golden
“Sometimes in life when you get what you want, you end up missing what you left behind.”
—Scrubs
“Opportunities come when you invest time, energy, and care into your pursuits.”
—Isobella Jade
“Even when the love is gone, it’s hard to realize that you have to quit something once so good.”
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“There’s a quickness in the way that things end. Sometimes when you’re so completely happy, you can’t help but wonder when things will change.”
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